How to choose the right Creche/Nursery for your Child

Picking a creche for your baby can be quite daunting for new parents. That’s if you go down the working mum route and not join the stay at home mum club.

Both my children have been attending creche since a very young age. Matthew was late which meant he was early to attend creche. I think he was just after five months old. Chloe was early and went bang on at the age of six months.

From the very start, I decided to go back to work. Probably because my own mum was working too when I came into the world. I am working in IT which couldn’t have been more matching for me, considering how much time I spend on the PC each evening. I couldn’t be that stay at home mum attending all the different play groups, meeting up with other mums, doing all the educational play at home. I’d probably crack up at some point. I don’t mean that in a bad way. It’s nice to be home some of the days particularly when we book a holiday away with the kids. You just appreciate them a little more.

Finding the right creche was important to us and it had to “feel right”. It was much harder with our first born Matthew than it was with Chloe as by the time Chloe attended creche, we knew how well Matthew integrated into his room and how lovely the staff were.

There are a few key points we looked out for before deciding whether this is right for us and our little one and may be for you too…

Location

Explore all your options but keep them as close as you can to your home. For us it was important to have a creche close to our home/ work in case something happens. Even if the creche rings up and says your little one came down with a temperature or developed chicken pox. You don’t want to be too far away to collect them.

What is provided?

In every creche your child gets the food provided of course. Whether that’s breakfast, snacks or lunch. But make sure to ask if you need to bring in nappies or wipes. In the first creche my kids attended, they didn’t need nappies at the start. But that was only because the creche was starting up. Soon they realised it’s too cost efficient. In the creche they are going to now we need to bring nappies but they provide the wipes and also the cream if you want them to use it.

Integration

There is no doubt your child will cry at the start. Without a doubt. Ask them for advice what way is the best to integrate them gradually into the room. To give you an example… the creche Chloe is going to now, it took a week. Luckily I was off that week anyway. We came in at certain times for a few hours and slowly but surely helped her getting into it. Matthew was no problem of course. The first day I stayed with her the whole time. The second day I left half way through and at the end both of them stayed on their own.

Routine

It is important to keep your little ones routine the same way as you had it before at home. This is more important in babies than it is in toddlers. When Matthew first started creche, they followed his routine all the way through in the baby room. Once he got older, he was introduced to the creche’s routine which all the other children followed.

Sleep facilities

Check out the sleep room where your baby will sleep in. Is it a good environment? Is it always monitored? In the new creche Chloe started off in the wobbler room. They had little beds. I was terrified her sleeping in it because I thought she would roll out. She is still sleeping in a cot bed at home but she is managing just fine and sleeps her hours sleep every day after lunch.

First Impression

You will be showing around all the rooms when you setup a meeting with the manager of the creche to have a look at a potential place for your child. First impression is always the real opinion. Do the kids look happy? Is it a warm and calming environment around them? If you see a hectic scenario, no doubt you are out.

Outside Play Area

Asked the manager to have a look at the play area outside. You should see the baby/ wobbler area seperate from the big boy and big girls play area. Both creches we attended, they had a fence around the baby/ wobbler play area.

Menu Sample

Now this might not be important to everyone. There is hardly a creche out there that just serves pizza, chicken nuggets and chips. I would still advise to consider looking at the menu to see what a normal week’s food looks like. I have to say the creche they go to now is very healthy. They have a set menu generally full of vegetables/ meat each day.

Record Sheet

Make sure to ask if they record your little ones day on paper. How else do you know what they got up to, how much they slept, what they ate. In the old creche I stopped getting sheets when Matthew entered the pre school room. The creche they go to now, they record everything for each child no matter how old they are. It’s very detailed. Food, sleep, toilet visits, activities and if anything is required.

Policies

Find out how many days they are closed during the year and if you need to pay for this time, too. When you decide to go on holidays, it’s generally a case that you do have to pay them for that time as well. It’s your choice taking them out of creche after all. How long before returning back to creche after an illness. Can they continue giving the medicine provided by the doctor? Is Calpol/ Nurofen on hand if needed? What discipline do they have in place when a child misbehaves?

Security

It’s very important for your child’s safety to have the whole building fenced in whatever way possible. Discuss what way you can access the creche. It should never be a case of open door policy. Codes should be given to the parent when trying to access the building. If there was a situation you have granddad collecting the kids for a change, make sure you tell them that in advanced.
Each room should be equipped with a security camera. This is for the “just in case” and you need to look back and see what happened at that time.

Are your kids attending a creche/nursery? Did you look out for all this?

16 Comments

  1. Janine's Little World
    Author
    7th June 2017 / 10:02 am

    That’s good. You really want to get the good vibes from the place. xx

  2. Janine's Little World
    Author
    31st May 2017 / 9:04 pm

    that must have been hard. xx

  3. 31st May 2017 / 8:10 am

    A really great list of things to consider Janine. It is so important o make an informed decision. Sophia only started nursery after the age of two but her brother at 9 months due to me having my last year of university. xx

  4. 24th May 2017 / 8:52 pm

    It’s a huge decision isn’t it?
    I change my mind after a week and was so much happier when I moved x x

  5. 20th May 2017 / 1:38 pm

    Great tips and advice here! We absolutely love Sophie’s nursery and I feel we definitely made the right choice x

  6. Janine's Little World
    Author
    18th May 2017 / 8:56 pm

    As long as he is happy that is the main thing. x

  7. Janine's Little World
    Author
    18th May 2017 / 8:56 pm

    Glad I am not alone. x

  8. 18th May 2017 / 8:49 pm

    This a great post of tips, it is such a big decision. We don’t have an awful lot of choice here but I was happy where mine went. Kaz x

  9. 18th May 2017 / 9:32 am

    A great list of things to consider. My daughter has been going to nursery since she was 18 months and these are all things we looked at beforehand. I too couldn’t be a full time stay at home mum, I enjoy going to work! xo

  10. Janine's Little World
    Author
    17th May 2017 / 8:25 pm

    That must be hard sending them to pre school when they have been at home for most of the time is it?

  11. Janine's Little World
    Author
    17th May 2017 / 8:24 pm

    That’s exactly it. xx

  12. Janine's Little World
    Author
    17th May 2017 / 8:23 pm

    Glad I could help

  13. 17th May 2017 / 8:16 pm

    I have only sent my kids to a pre-school so far, but this is really useful. i had not thought about the sleeping facilities for when they’re younger

  14. 17th May 2017 / 3:11 pm

    Great advice! It’s such a big decision, it aways takes me a while to feel really relaxed with the kids new settings.

  15. 17th May 2017 / 11:22 am

    So many things to consider when choosing a nursery or crèche. It’s so important when they are spending a lot of time there. It has to be the right one! Xx

  16. 17th May 2017 / 10:51 am

    Great advice we are starting to have to look at pre-schools for Blake so this is great advice for us.